The Best Wedding Preparation steps ever!
- Adaeze Nwankwo
- Mar 7, 2024
- 4 min read
3 SIMPLE YET EFFECTIVE STEPS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT TOWARDS
A STRESS-FREE WEDDING DAY.

Have you ever wondered why chaos presents itself when something beautiful is about to happen?
Are you currently preparing for your wedding and having so much drama and confusion without solutions? then you are in the right space and perfect time. I will be dropping some easy things we already know but ignore that could turn our lives around for good! if you love ''EASY'' then grab your popcorn for this latest movie, lol.
1). INTIMACY WITH YOUR LOVER
You saw it right, Intimacy with your lover, your one and only! and I don't mean your Spouse to be, lol.
I am referring to the lover of soul, your creator, our dear lord Jesus, if you are a Christian and a true believer of the word of God then you sure know where I am headed. As simple as a prayer, a word with God about your wedding plans can turn so much negative energy around in your favour. This is the most important part of it all because without this you might just be nose-diving towards mayhem.
Did you know-
God sent us a helper to be our constant guide in all things, not some things but all things even as simple as your wedding plans.
You need to guard your heart and thoughts, as you pray you need to learn to listen to God just like you would your best friend , commit your plans, dates, wedding attires and all that pertain to your big day to him, I did this when I was getting married , controversies arose but girl, I gathered all that positive energy from my father and faced them head on!

He sent helpers in my favour, he raised men and women for my sake.
Talk to God sweet sweetheart, tell him every little detail, and watch your big day go from better to the best. Have your personal time with God, silence the noise, hear from your lover, and let him guide you.
Here are some amazing benefits of this great step-
Insight to clarity
Peace amid any storm
A better relationship with your spouse (because misunderstandings without sense will happen suddenly happen)
Direction on the right path to take and choice to make.
Unbelievable blessings
Need more insight and bible verses to work with, check this out
2). YOUR INNER CIRCLE
It's the jet age sweety, you don't want to be letting every Dick, Tom, and Harry into your space, especially towards your wedding preparations or special seasons! the people around you can either strengthen or weaken you. There will be moments when you can't take it all in, it's your circle, your chosen bridesmaids and family that would stand in, this also goes for your spouse too, you would be amazed at how much you could achieve with just the right people.
Picture Source- MY FASHION PAGE, BRIDES-MAIDS OUTFITS BY YOUR TRULY.
LET ME BREAK IT DOWN A BIT-
The Bride's Maids - These set of blessings should be well chosen, they determine the outlook of the who you roll with, the atmosphere you carry and of course they should be there to help you, if they need to get dirty for things to be done then they must, it's your day and would do the same for them, we don't need people who are more focused on their own looks to the point they forget the bride, its a huge NO darling. Your girls should be fun, supportive, witty, PRAYERFUL and frugal.

Family- From both sides, you need support, emotional, financial and more. these are the people who have known you the most and will always be there, family is there to shield you so it is important to have and commit them to God, you have to get it right with your In- laws too, how can you do this? PRAY, TO THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL, remember? HE LISTENS, lol.
3). YOUR WEDDING OUTFITS

Wedding gown by Yours truly- Source
Girl!!! you know I'm gonna talk about the dress, yesss! I am your fairy godmother so you know I would bring my A-GAME.
Did you know you should pray about the procedure of your dresses? from what fabric to choose, to who is going to sew them... that's if you aren't buying from a store.
Go for your style, you want to look and feel your best on your wedding day darling, it's useless trying to extremely suck up in corsets at the detriment of your health or discomfort. if that's your style, go for it by all means but if you intend to please the social media and people you barely know who exist behind their key-pads, all just for the opinions of others then we need to retrace your steps here!
If you need guidance on what to wear, how to dress, and how to feel on your big day, I am always here for you, you can simply subscribe to my blog for constant tips I share now and then or send an email and we can get talking.
As for the perfect dress guide and perfect wedding, you know you have to look no further, Adencollections is right here, I totally understand the confusion, stress, and constant change of mind until you see your ''IT'' dress. it happens to the best of us.
Adencollections has several budget-friendly plans that will suit any bride and save you stress or money.
I am sure you are a bit amazed at these steps, they are your major guides to everything else.
Another Tip to add would be CONTENT, work with your budget, and what you can afford. You owe nobody an explanation, it's your life, your wedding, and your marriage.
Above all, don't forget to give thanks and praise to God who makes all things beautiful, I promise you
that as much as these are unexpected steps to follow, they are like little drops of water that eventually make a mighty ocean!
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Now get to work on your spiritual growth, ( not dropping the mic this time, just keeping close to your ears for daily reminders to get to work! lol).





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